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Caregiver’s bill of rights

Caregiver’s Bill of Rights written by Jo Horne, author of “Caregiving: Helping an Aging Loved One”.

We offer our readers a short list of key points regarding the rights of the caregiver. Each point corresponds to the principle of “I have the right…”:

 

  • To take care of myself. This is not an act of selfishness. It will give me the capacity to take better care of my relative.

 

  • To seek help from others even though my relative may object. I recognize the limits of my own endurance and strength.

 

  • To maintain facets of my own life that do not include the person I care for, just as I would if he or she were healthy. I know that I do everything that I reasonably can for this person, and I have the right to do some things for myself.

 

  • To get angry, be depressed, and express other difficult feelings occasionally.

 

  • To reject any attempt by my relative (either conscious or unconscious) to manipulate me through guilt, anger, or depression.

 

  • To receive consideration, affection, forgiveness, and acceptance for what I do for my loved one for as long as I offer these qualities in return.

 

  • To take pride in what I am accomplishing and to applaud the courage it has sometimes taken to meet the needs of my relative.

 

  • To protect my individuality and my right to make a life for myself that will sustain me in the time when my relative no longer needs my full-time help.

 

  • To expect and demand that as new strides are made in finding resources to aid physically and mentally impaired older persons in our country, similar strides will be made toward aiding and supporting caregivers.

 

  • To ___________________________________________________
    (Add you own statement of rights to this list. Read the list to yourself every day.)
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Graduated in Literature at the University of Eastern Piedmont, he's now studying anthropological and ethnological science at the University of Milano-Bicocca. Journalist and writer, he collaborated with many local newspapers and in the 2015 he published his first book "Qui non arriva la pioggia". In the 2017 published "Il peccato armeno, ovvero la binarietà del male".

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